The line between silence and oversharing


The Beat

April 2025

Have you ever overshared?

You're not alone.

Have you ever wondered: Should I share this story? Who can I trust? Is now the right time?

In my work, I’ve observed that the digital era's emphasis on going "viral" can cloud our storytelling judgment. We might feel pressured to post immediately, or silenced by indecision, both of which can lead to negative consequences.

I believe all stories are worthy, but some audiences haven't earned the right to hear yours.

For the past few years, I've been testing a framework called The Storytelling Compass to help people decide which stories to share and which to protect.

This month, I'll tell you more about the framework and how you can use it.

See the details under Spotlight and Don't Miss below!

Warmly,

Lisa Weiss
The Beat
A Newsletter by Storybeat Studio


In this issue:

Spotlight

The Storytelling Compass


Practice

Writing Prompts to Fuel Your Creativity


Don't Miss!

Download the Storytelling Compass

Spotlight

Introducing: The Storytelling Compass

Your stories are valuable assets. Whenever you share a personal or professional narrative, you make a choice that can impact your relationships, reputation and career. The Storytelling Compass can help you orient yourself within the complex landscape of personal and professional storytelling. It can help you decide what to share, with whom, and when.

By understanding the three circles of sharing—protect, curate, and share publicly—I hope you'll gain confidence in your storytelling decisions.

Continue on to the PRACTICE section to explore further.

Practice

Mindful Sharing:
3 Questions

In our monthly Practice section, discover writing prompts to help you transform thoughts into words on the page.

This month’s writing practice invites you to explore moments when you shared or held back a story:

  1. When was the last time you hesitated to share a personal or career-related story? What factors made you pause?
  2. Think of a time you shared something and later regretted it. What signals did you ignore?
  3. Recall a moment when you felt completely safe sharing a vulnerable story. What elements created that safety?

Don't Miss!

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Hi! I'm Lisa Weiss

3X Emmy Award-winning producer, writer, and founder of Storybeat Studio.

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